Older & Bolder

When: second and fourth Thursday of the month, 7.30pm - 9pm

This group is aimed at older men (40 and beyond) who identify as gay or bisexual. The group will meet on the 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month, 7.30pm to 9pm here at the LGF. 

The group will provide a safe, encouraging and non judgemental space for men to take part in themed discussions and activities, and also to expand their social networks away from the village environment.

Volunteers Andrew, Nick and Kush are really looking forward to being part of the group, and if you have any questions, or are nervous attending the group, please speak to them and they will try and put you at ease. They are also really keen to encourage group involvement and suggestions are welcome.

For any questions and access requirements, please email kate.hardy@lgf.org.uk or phone 0845 3 30 30 30.

 

Frequently Asked Questions for LGF groups

1. Where is the group held?

The group is held at Number 5, Richmond Street, Manchester M1 3HF, where the LGF is based. The offices are above Queer on Canal Street, however entry to the LGF is on Richmond Street which runs behind Canal Street and is the same road on which Vanilla is on. Just press the buzzer, say you are here for the group, and you will be let in.

2. Is it accessible?

There is a lift to all floors from street level, we also have stairs so if you don’t want to use the lift, say so when you ring the buzzer.

3. Is it anonymous and confidential?

Yes, at the beginning of the group you may be asked what your name is, you do not have to give your real name of course. We will also ask you to complete a monitoring form (postcode, gender, sexuality, age), this information can not be used to identify you and is used for data collection only. Again, you do not have to complete this.

What is discussed within the group is confidential, however there are times when confidentiality may have to be breached, for example if you or somebody else is at risk of harm, or where there is a requirement in law in the case of serious criminal offences (in particular terrorism and money laundering). We also ask group members to be sensitive and tactful when outside the group.

4. Can I meet someone before the group starts?

Of course you can! The best way is ring the LGF on 0845 3 30 30 30. That way we will know when you are arriving, so we can have a chat and a look round the building. It's a nerve racking thing coming to the group for the first time, and we want to make it as comfortable as possible, so ask us anything!

5. What's the age range of the group and how many people turn up to the group?

The age range is 40 and above, however, if you are just under this age, we could accommodate your needs too.  Groups range from 4 people to around 10, with sometimes more depending on what’s going on!

6. Do I have to speak?

Not if you don't want to! Some people like to sit back and listen and others like to partake in the conversation, it really is up to you!

7. What's the environment like?

We have a lovely group room on the second floor, with comfy sofas, a kitchen to make brews in, a PC to use, as well as a pull down screen to watch films, a Wii and a Hi Fi!

8. What do you talk about?

We have regular discussions about issues such as coming out, homophobia, the gay scene, work issues, Pride and dating. We also have external people coming in to do presentations and workshops, workshops in the past have been activities such as crafts, photography, confidence, sexual health and LGBT history.  Some groups have their own Facebook group, so have a look.

9. Do I have to be 'out'?

No! The group is for people who are unsure of their sexuality, as well as people who are out but feel isolated. Other peoples' experiences about coming out can often help people who are unsure. You don't even have to identify yourself if you would prefer not to.

10. Are there any social opportunities in the group?

Yes! Some groups have regular outings, and also some go for drinks in Canal Street after the group has finished.

Groupwork Agreement for all LGF groups:

  1.  Welcome all members to the group and help provide a friendly environment
  2. We have the right to speak and also to remain silent
  3. Anything discussed in the group should stay confidential, be tactful if you see other members of the group outside
  4. Try not to talk over each other, especially when people are presenting
  5. Try not to dominate discussion, other people may have an opinion
  6. Treat all members of the group with respect, even if you disagree with them.  Challenge the issue not the person
  7. Aggressive behaviour towards other service users, volunteers or staff is not acceptable and you will be asked to leave the group
  8. Do not access the group if you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol, you will be asked to leave the group and come back when not under the influence
  9. Mobile phones should be on silent, please step outside the room to use
  10. The group room in everyone’s responsibility, please help to keep the area clean and tidy


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