Threesomes

What is it?

Consensual sex between 3 people. It may be fun if you are single but can lead to emotional insecurity and jealousy if all parties involved are not completely happy with it.

Health risks

If you are having sex with more than one partner it is important to practise safe sex. Risks are reduced if you know the person involved and are aware of their sexual past but it’s still important to be safe. Always keep your vaginal fluid away from the other women’s genitals and visa versa. If you are using sex toys never share them. Have your own or use a condom on dildos or vibrators. Always change the condom before it enters a new hole. Avoid touching the anus and then the vagina as this spreads infection from the bowels.

If you are involving a man in the threesome always use condoms and change condoms between partners.

General information

Some lesbians enjoy threesomes. If you are unsure about the situation it is important to say so. As with all sex don’t feel pressured into doing something you don’t want to do. Some people may feel awkward about seeing their partner be intimate with someone else, which could lead to strain upon the relationship. You may get off on the idea as a fantasy but the reality may stir a completely different emotion. On the other hand threesomes may really turn you and your partner on. Three isn’t always a crowd! The decision is yours but whatever you do be safe.